Does not show follower-requests

Steps to reproduce

Go to mastodon or Pleroma, search for @user@yourfunkwhale.instance, choose user, klick "Follow"
Go to funkwhaleinstance, check notifications, check settings->user-requests
Go to https:///api/admin/federation/follow/
Reload userpage in mastodon or pleroma

What happens?

In Mastodon and pleroma you see, the following-request is pending In funkwhale as user, you do not see any following-request In django-backend you can see the following-request as "not approved" Approve the following-request make a green check appear instead of the black "?"

mastodon/pleroma-user is not shown in funkwhale as follower
mastodon/pleroma stays at "following requested" for the funkwhale-user
no notifications about new titles or playlists on mastodon/pleroma

What is expected?

I expect that i can approve following-requests from user-interface, that the following-requests are shown (and approveable) Mastodon and Pleroma should receive notifications, when i upload or change my music/titles/playlists-library